I really believe that there is no ONE right way to be a better version of ourselves.
Fundamentally I can tell you I have tried a lot of things but certainly not everything. And it was in the earlier months of 2023 that I heard a statement that completely shifted how I viewed my life
"Knowing what you want is important, but so is knowing what you DON'T want"
That 'don't want' part, floored me.
Until then, I did not realize how what I did not want was just the other side of what I DID want!!
CRAZY!!
Maybe...
But, that was a light bulb moment for me as simple as it may seem. I never thought that before.
While I was busy chasing what I wanted I was not realizing that it was being revealed to me in what I didn't want. Which was always, always, always clearer for me to see and find
GOSH!!
When I think of the time that statement could have saved me, if known earlier
But... then...
I probably wouldn't have been ready anyway.
The thing is I know NOW and that matters.
A full 38 years before a light bulb discovery
or at least the last one I remember clearly :).
Each one to their own journey of discovery.
Keep reaching,
It will find you.
Or you IT!!!